Tuesday, April 21, 2009

this is friendship

Having left home for about four months, I always cannot help wondering what the real friendship is. To tell the truth, friends are so important in my life that I really treasure the friendship with them very much. However, the distance and the time make it difficult for me to stay and communicate with them. The lives of them have never been familiar to me since the day I left my hometown. The only way that I can keep track with them is through the internet. Perhaps somebody believes that it is more important to get on well with and treasure the friends we have now. Of course, it is really very necessary and important to some extent, but we also should not forget our old friends who accompanied us in the old days. I kept feeling disappointed until I saw the words from many friends to encourage me a few days ago. It was exactly from that moment that I came to realize what a really friend is.
When many people are concerned about the height of your flying, only a few people are concerned if you are tired or not. This is friendship.
Maybe you have not call him for a long time, but you will think of him whenever you are in trouble. This is friendship.
Maybe you have not seen him for a long time or even have no idea about his life recently, but you always think of him and are concerned about him. This is friendship.
Maybe he is not among the people who are around you when you succeed, but you can always find him encouraging and accompanying you whenever you get into troubles. This is friendship.
The friend will not always mention the friendship between you and him or request something, but make all his effort to help you.
The friend will not only share happiness with you but also share pain with you.
The friend will forgive your mistakes but will never cheat you.
The friend will…
Friendship is one of the most important aspects of our lives. The life without friends is just like a cup of coffee without sugar which makes it bitter and tasteless. Friendship is a wisp of cloud in the blue sky which makes you feel carefree and leisurely. Friendship is a breath of wind which makes you feel comfortable and enjoy the ease of mind. Friendship is drop of water in drought which brings hope to you and makes you come to life. This is friendship which should be treasured forever. No matter where you are, thank you, my friends, and thank you for giving me so many beautiful memories.

3 comments:

  1. To be honest, when I read the sentence ” When many people are concerned about the height of your flying, only a few people are concerned if you are tired or not. This is friendship.” I was almost moved to tears. One can have a lot of friends, but I divide friends into three parts. The first part is ordinary friends. These friends of mine can chat with each other and play together to have fun, however, they cannot be the ones whom I can turn to when I am stuck in troubles. Another part is heart friends whom I can always pour out my feelings to without caring about if it will bring him or her trouble because we are only heart friends that we even do not meet often. To them, I can share my ideas and thoughts, but not to rely on them. The last part I definite it to be true friends. These friends are whom I can turn to when I meet any trouble and can rely on. Just as Xiaolei wrote in this blog that true friends need not to stay with each other very often, but the moment we need them they will surely come and accompany us to get through troubles.
    In our life, maybe we do not spend much time with our true friends, but the friendship between us will never fade or vanish, instead, with time passing by, the friendship will become even sturdier. This is true friend!

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  2. What a beautiful article you have done! I am quite sure that all the words come from the bottom of your heart. I even doubt whether I should write this comment with my poor expression. I agree with what you have said, but we can deny that our opponents, or even enemies are also important in our life. From the friends we can learn how to love the one you care, but how to survive from the competitive society must be learned from our enemies. In a nutshell, we should be grateful to everyone around us because they teach us how to live a balanced life in the society.

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  3. Nearly all people can keep friendly to their friends when they are wealthy. however, if you want to test the true friendship, give the them some misfortune. One person can have many friends. Nevertheless, the true friends who won't leave you when you are trapped in difficulty are very few. We will make many friends and should make more true friends.

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